the kind of people you need in your life are the kind that would grab your hand and say things like 'it's OK, it's alright. you don't need to make a decision right now. you can take as long as you like. you can take all the time you need' when you start freaking out and panicking because you're in the queue in Starbucks and it's nearly your turn to give your order and you don't know what you want yet